You want your boyfriend back. Your heart aches to hear his voice. You mind races as you try to think of a solution that will bring him back to you. You’ve tried talking with him. You’ve promised him the world. You’d do anything to get him back. You’d do anything to be reunited with the man you love but you fear that it’s over and your hope is leaving you with each passing hour.
Take heart and listen to me now. The truth is that there is no relationship that is beyond repair. There is nothing in this world that is impossible and if you think that getting your boyfriend or husband back is beyond hope then talk to some people that have beat cancer or overcome infertility when doctors said that there was no hope. What makes you think that getting your ex back is so impossible?
What Stands In The Way Of You Getting Your Boyfriend Back
The unfortunate fact is that the one thing standing in your way of getting your man back is you. You are the major obstacle that is holding you back from making him feel love and desire and want for you right now. You might think that you’re doing everything that you can think of to try to get him back but that is the problem. You are trying too hard. You are putting too much pressure on yourself and on your ex.
It may take some time but that love that your man once felt for you is still there. The passion that you both experienced together was not a mistake. Feelings and emotions like this do not simply disappear. What did disappear was the woman that he fell in love with. You changed after the breakup and you are as far from being the woman that he fell in love with as the east is from the west. While you probably used to be a lot of fun at one time, in his mind he sees you as needy and desperate to corner him and get him back in a relationship with you.
What He Loved About You…
Think about how you acted back when you first got together with your ex. Together you both probably had a lot of fun. You were each other’s best friend. You both hated to be apart and you talked all the time. You shared everything and there was a connection and chemistry between the two of you that was undeniable. He loved you and he loves you still. At least, he would probably admit that he loved how you were.
The trick now is to get back to being somewhat like that woman that he fell in love with. Sweep aside all the hurt feelings and arguments. Forget about everything that he said during your breakup and how he is treating you right now. You won his heart once, why can’t you win his heart again? Get back to being his best friend and forget about your need to hang a label on him. You don’t need a boyfriend or a husband, after all. You need your best friend back.
The best way to get him back is to rekindle that friendship that led to love and ultimately devotion on both of your parts. It may take some time apart to learn how to reign in your emotions and put your own needs aside for a bit in order to make him remember how things were. It may take some time for you to get your life back together and make sure that you understand and are able to give him what he needs in order to feel safe again that the same circumstances that led to your breakup before won’t happen again. This is your time to learn a few things about yourself so you can be a better partner for him. Follow through and don’t let doubt destroy your hope that you can get your boyfriend back.